Monday, October 18, 2021

EMPATHY

 EMPATHY

The one who wants the most love is the one who gives the most love to others .....

 There is a strange group of people among us.  Those people are very different.  If they do not have empathy, empathy is at its best. It is amazing how dedicated they are to others.

 When there is a connection between them and you, everything happens very easily.  You have nothing to worry about.  Those people see your need day in and day out and fulfill it.  Over time, you will feel that those needs come naturally, not just someone else.

 You can easily forget that the one who gives infinitely is a human being.  Thank you for what you forget.  You forget that the man does not necessarily have to do those things.

 You never forget the duties you have to do to people who ask you things, shout, and do not understand.  Because if those duties are not done it is a big problem.  But that's not the part of the people I give the infinite I mentioned above.  So you easily avoid the duties they are supposed to be.  So there is no problem of being missed.  No problem.

 At first glance, this might seem easy.  But you do not know there is a big problem.  You do not realize that what you are doing is cutting down a branch.

 Relationships like this are usually what I call 20:80 relationships.  That means giving 20 and getting 80 connections.  This is why these are so dangerous.  The giver loses only 20.  You lose 80.  But when there is a relationship like this, we do not think that these relationships can be broken.  you think that...

 "Oh, he's dying because he values ​​me so much. He's not going to hit me."

  Those people say the same.  It shows you 100 times your value.

 In a relationship like this, you have to love that person again..duty..thank you and even if you are not granted, we usually do the other side.

 The thing is, the day will come when these people will get fed up with this one-sided giving.  Even if you think it's like nuts coming out of the house.  With time comes a lot of signals, but it takes time for you to calm down and remember the signals you deliberately missed.

 These people usually go without coming back.  When you wake up one morning, they can erase the past and forget about you.  That's because they try 100% in relationships.  Where there is nothing more to do, they get bored forever.

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